I seem to talk about life ever so
often these days; does it have anything to do with age or just experiences one
has been through? I think it’s a little of both. Hmmm! It’s all about life
again today. Have you observed that at some point we generally want to believe we’ve
been through so much there is nothing new to experience? Maybe this is true for
some but some of us have found that we always have something new to learn when
we are faced with a new experience; for every new experience comes with its own
lessons. Life could be described as a school with many different schools or
experiences from one level to the next; or maybe a journey in the course of
which we are compelled to have different experiences which give us opportunities
to learn new things though the decision whether or not to learn is always ours.
Those who don’t learn are those who refuse to yield so that they remain in the process
going through the same experiences over and over but never learning. Sometimes,
though the experiences may seem different, they are not; especially where the lessons
they teach remain the same. God allows us through life’s experiences making
them our refining schools which we ought to go through successfully that we may
be accomplished and skilled in the art of applying of God’s mind to real life
situations successfully. Each school ought to teach us something different changing
different aspects our persons. To circumvent the experience is to go round the school
and end up shallow; learning no new thing and having no successes or testimonies
and the end of which is sorrow. These are the ones that are ever learning but
never gaining life transforming understanding like the women Paul talks about in
one of his letters to Timothy.
2 Timothy 3: 7 “Such women are forever learning but never able to come
to come to the knowledge of the truth.”
I am convinced that to each
school God has allotted a certain period of time so that if one has to keep
repeating a particular school and/or experience, a day may come when the option
of repeating will no longer exist so that the individual remains stunted or immature
in many ways. The bible speaks of “an acceptable time” and doing things “while
it is yet day” and several other such sentences that tell that with God, there
is often a time frame allotted for anything that needs to be done. Also, I have
found that one of the most common reasons for failing is “self”. It is
impossible to go through successfully, if self is exalted. The primary aim of
each school is to ultimately help us “kill our flesh” and if one’s self is the
most important thing to them then there is no way such persons will let go of their
flesh enough for the experience to facilitate the death thereof. Indeed many
such persons are left no option but to circumvent the experience. Such are believers
who have elected rather to dismiss any or all forms of discomfort and God does
not compel anyone to go through. Though He allows us face these experiences, He
leaves us with options and watches to see if we would go through or go round
but no one can fulfill their destiny going round. So let us not despise these life’s
experiences painful as they may sometimes be.
1 Peter 2: 1 - 3 “So get rid of all evil behavior. Be done with all
deceit, hypocrisy, jealousy, and all unkind speech. Like newborn babies, you
must crave pure spiritual milk so that you will grow into a full experience of
salvation. Cry out for this nourishment, now that you have had a taste of the
Lord’s kindness.”
James 1: 12 “God blesses those who patiently endure testing and
temptation. Afterward they will receive the crown of life
With every school passed, one’s
faith increases so that from school to school, we grow from faith to faith. The
more the flesh dies, the more control God has of our lives and the more of His
goodness He is able to deposit in our lives. It is only normal to give more to
those that have succeeded having been tried and tested. Such persons earn trust.
Our God is no different; though He desires friendship with and loves us dearly,
He entrust some with more. God would not give the same responsibility to one
who has consistently failed or circumvented the schools as He would one who has
successfully gone through everyone they had to go through. It is foolishness to
assume that there is nothing to be said for every level of experience that one
has gone through successfully. Mere knowledge and tested knowledge would
respond differently when faced with the same circumstance. It is presumptuous
to think they are equal. It is best to learn calmly instead of assuming we know
all that those who have gone ahead of us know. Little knowledge when tested
successfully, produces immense maturity. Let us have respect unto maturity because
whatever we despise will not come to us.
Job 23: 10b “And when he tests me, I will come out as pure gold.”
1 Peter 1: 7 “These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is
being tested as fire tests and purifies gold-though your faith is far more
precious than mere gold. So when your faith remains strong through many trials,
it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ
is reveled to the whole world.”
So do not fear when you go
through each of these experiences as you may be even now. God is there with you
through it all. He is God in valleys as He is on mountain tops. As long as He remains
God, He is always in control except we yield our lives to another. He allowed
life throw the experience at you to bring you to a good place. Let your heart
be stayed on Him. Fear is a tool of the enemy to make us circumvent or keep
aborting the process. That you may die in the experience is a thought from
satan which needs to be cast out of your mind because you will come through. Nothing
but your flesh shall die in the process which was God’s original intention.
Fear not! You are coming to a wealthy place. For every experience is but a
stepping stone.