Loyalty is an unwavering commitment
to a relationship and/or person(s). To a large extent, it determines the depth
and strength of any relationship but it appears to be one of those things slipping
away and becoming irrelevant in today’s world. No matter how sweet a
relationship may seem, the test of loyalty is always required to determine its
strength and true sweetness. Reality is that as life goes on, every
relationship will be tested and our relationship with Christ is no different.
Loyalty cost something; a price that some don’t have in them to pay and are
unwilling to acquire but this is slowly destroying the church of Christ. These are
people who don’t mean harm but they are only loyal to themselves so that they
can flake out on anyone, without considering the consequences, immediately they
feel the relationship is no longer meeting their need. That word means nothing
to them. Sadly, they are beginning to make loyalty look like stupidity, making
fun of loyal people, taking full advantage of them and even going to the extent
of trying to “enslave” them so that loyal people feel compelled to move away
from being loyal in trying to enforce their individuality and/or “right to
liberty” in Christ. This is the problem
of some believers even today. A big problem because not only are we not true
friends to one another, we are unable to return the true friendship that Christ
offers us and desires in return.
Proverbs 17: 17 “a friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to
help in time of need.”
Psalms 78: 35 - 37 “Then they remembered that God was their rock, that
God most High was their redeemer. But all they gave him was lip service; they
lied to him with their tongues. Their hearts were not loyal to him. They did
not keep his covenant.”
Jesus lays down the rules for a
relationship with Him which disloyal persons will be unable to adhere to much
as they may desire to be His disciples. Loyalty is deep and may require of one
what one never thought of or even bargained for and such is the reality of our
walk with God but we are moving away from it and tending more toward
selfishness. Selfishness and disloyalty are promoted in today’s world and these
are real issues for Christianity and even society at large. These facilitate corruption
and every evil work. We have been lured into a snare where in making fun of and
taking advantage of loyal people, we actually abuse them without meaning to
thereby attempting to destroy that godly nature just in our bid to promote selfishness
and/or disloyalty but this is slowly destroying persons, families and society. Though
we claim to be Disciples of Christ, we are extremely selfish creatures and even
teaching it to our children so that we are sowing our evil into generations of
believers following after us. Interestingly, to every disloyal person, everyone
is also suspect because they interpret everything through their very myopic
minds and slowly our fellowship is dying because love isn’t real without
loyalty. Fellowship speaks of relationships and that is God’s plan for us but
how can we then fellowship meaningfully when we are all guarded and very suspicious
of one another. Trust is completely lacking and maybe not without reason but is
this really love?
John 13: 35 “Your love for one another will prove to the world that you
are my disciples.”
I hope I am not getting old too fast
but I seem to recall a time when if a believer did something wrong, and one is
unable to let them know or maybe it would be inappropriate for the one who saw
them to make the corrections, they could speak to someone who was better positioned
to make the correction; but today, it may be tough because it would be referred
to as gossip and no one wants that label so we all say nothing and more people
are self - destructing but is that love? We see children doing wrong and we
can’t tell persons better positioned to speak to the child’s parents because we
would be referred to as gossips. This pattern started with people being unable
to speak truth because they would be labelled judgmental and no one likes that.
So people just got away with doing anything since we all don’t want to be judgmental
but our faith is slowly getting destroyed and we are losing the liberty we once
had in Christ. The openness and sincerity with wish we related because we were
loyal to Christ and therefore to one another since our relationships were
rooted in Christ. Loyalty was celebrated and everyone desired to be absolutely
loyal to Christ. In being loyal to Him, you saw through His eyes and as a
result you loved and were loyal to everyone He is loyal to. False brethren have
crept in and are truly stealing the liberty we once had in Christ. Christ
demands loyalty otherwise He would not require us to carry our cross. If you
are loyal to Him, you will pay the price required and continue to pay it to the
end. It is time to think very deeply so that we do not end up losing our
salvation as well as mislead generations coming after us.
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